Unattractive male habit 1: Boasting
Some guys big themselves up so much that it would appear they’re
trying to prove to themselves that they’re a good catch. We’ve heard
about how amazing your job is, how much money you’re earning, how hot
your exes were, how everyone loves you. Now time to talk about
ourselves… nope, because you haven’t finished bigging up your car and
your house and your hilarious personality (erm, really?). Do you think
that all this bragging will make us overlook the fact that you’re so
boring? Being egotistical won’t make the ladies stick around so employ a
bit of modesty and try asking questions about us rather than blabbing
about yourself all the time.
women find boasting unattractive in men
Unattractive male habit 2: Having no old-fashioned values
We don’t expect you to act like one of the gentlemen from a Charles
Dickens’ film, but not being gentlemanly at all is a huge turn-off. You
can take us on a few dates and treat us like a queen but the day you
leave us to walk down a dark alley to find our car is the day we
suddenly realise we’re not attracted to you anymore. We want a man who
has old-fashioned values and treats his women with respect. We like to
be looked after and feel safe when we’re with you, not feel as though
you could ditch us at any moment because you’ve remembered you’re late
for the pub with the lads.
Unattractive male habit 3: No sense of humour
If there’s one thing a man must possess to make us feel attracted to
them, it’s a sense of humour. It’s a powerful tool in a conversation,
particularly when overcoming awkward moments, and not having one makes
you seem overly serious and boring. When we’re laughing until we can
barely breathe at something undeniably hilarious, it’s not very
attractive when you sit there straight-faced and serious. The guy who is
having a laugh with his friends, however, always looks like a fun
person to be around. We like the guy who is intelligent enough to make
us laugh until our ribs hurt and won’t give us an evil stare when we
start breaking out into a giggle.
Unattractive male habit 4: Scratching your private parts
They’re the big manly hands we like to hold, the hands that make us
feel safe, the hands you cook the tea with on the odd occasion, and the
hands you er… scratch your privates with – nice. It’s definitely a
turn-off for women when men shamelessly scratch ‘down there’ without a
care in the world. It gets worse when you insist on stealing our chips.
You don’t pinch one off the top; you rummage right the way down to the
bottom with your scratching hand. At least get your scratching fix in
the bathroom when you’re not in full view of everyone else. And then
wash your hands afterwards.
Unattractive male habit 5: Lack of ambition
Most women are attracted to men who have a focus in life, and we find
it repulsive if you have no ambition to achieve anything. It makes it
hard for us to respect you if you can’t speak to us about your goals,
ideas, and things you want to achieve. No one wants to settle down with
the guy who gets his kicks out of lazing around on the sofa watching day
time television while we’re working hard to achieve our dreams.
Getting your kicks out of video games and nothing else is sad and
boring.
Unattractive male habit 6: Expecting us to clean up after you
So you get annoyed at us for nagging, right? Well don’t give us a
reason to nag then. If you didn’t leave a trail of clothes, food, and
towels around the house then we wouldn’t have anything to nag about. You
make out as though we’re clean freaks whose lives revolve around
cleaning and tidying when, in actual fact, we just don’t want to live in
a pig sty. You suddenly lose your attractiveness once we’ve seen your
boxer shorts scattered around the floor and your beard hairs in the
sink. We’ll clean our stuff up, you clean yours. We know this will never
happen, but you’d be a million times more attractive if it did.
Unattractive male habit 7: Being over-protective
As much as we love to feel safe and cared for, there’s a fine line
between that and being over-protected. Being over-protective is a sign
of insecurity, and we like our men to be independent and tough. One
minute we’re saying thanks to the postman for delivering a parcel, the
next we’re being accused by our other half of flirting and wanting to
marry the guy. Accusing us of fancying every Tom, Dick and Harry that
crosses our path is annoying and it makes you seriously unattractive.
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